पिता

 माँ घर का गौरव तो पिता घर का अस्तित्व होते हैं.

माँ के पास अश्रुधारा तो पिता के पास संयम होता है 

दोनों समय का भोजन माँ बनती है तो जीवन भर भोजन की व्यवस्था करने वाले पिता को हम सहज ही भूल जाते हैं.

कभी लगी जो ठोकर या चोट तो "ओ माँ"  ही मुंह से निकलता है

लेकिन रास्ता पार करते समय कोई ट्रक पास आकर ब्रेक लगाये तो "बाप रे"यही मुहँ से निकलता है 

क्योंकि छोटे छोटे संकटों के लिए माँ है पर बड़े 

संकट आने पर पिता ही याद आते हैं

पिता एक वट वृक्ष हैं जिनकी शीतल छावं में सम्पूर्ण परिवार सुख से रहता है. 

The Law of Attraction

    The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. It is now a scientific fact. Physics has shown that the principles involved in the Law of Attraction are as valid as those governing the Law of Gravity. So it should come as no surprise that dwelling only on your problems simply attracts more problems. 

   Thoughts are energy, they are real. Our thoughts act as magnets and attract other thoughts, people, and circumstances that harmonize with them. 

  The idea of attracting success by thinking about it is very appealing. So appealing in fact, people often get the wrong impression that it's easy. Affirmations can be helpful, but mindless affirmations alone have no real value. On the other hand, once an affirmation becomes part of your belief system the subconscious goes to work attracting opportunities. It is not the success itself we attract, but the opportunity to succeed.

  Our world is ruled by cause and effect, yet we often fail to see how this rule applies to the thoughts we think. This happens because the results of our thoughts are so far removed from the cause that we fail to see the connection. 

  The subconscious mind is working tirelessly 24 hours a day. It doesn't analyze, it doesn't judge, it simply accepts and attracts more of what the conscious mind is focused on. Are you attracting problems or solutions? By focusing on desire and showing gratitude for what you already have, the subconscious mind is given the necessary material to provide a constant stream of opportunities. Whether we take advantage of these opportunities or not is another story. 

Resentment- Means re-feel, re-feel.. and re-feel.

    It happens with all of us at one point or other.  Someone wrongs or wounds us and we get in to resentment.  In resenting, we re-feel the injury. And re-hurt ourself.  The more we resent, more we get hurt.  A person who bears grudge is 'like one who, having cut one hand while handling a knife, avenges himself by stabbing the other hand.'

     The best way to avoid this self inflicting suffering is to apply 'spiritual iodine' the moment anybody hurts you!  Get your resentment healed at once, before it starts further hurting you!

      

Here is a old but good solution-  Think no evil about anyone.  Put the best possible construction upon every one's actions.  Send out a kindly thought towards any person antagonistic to you. Think hopefully at all times.  See only the best happening.

    

     Avoid resentment, remember it's like touching your wound over and over again.  It causes more loss to you than to other person.

Don't Focus On Failure

   Internal defeat is a mindset, where you begin to believe that most new ideas will fail.  This happens when we put too much focus on 'failure'.  Unknowingly, this becomes part of our personality. Don't let this happen to you, else you will start doubting all possibilities of success.

   We will always learn from mistakes when we see them clearly as a test, examine the results, and study them closely for the reason why they went wrong. 

    Whether it is a plan, relationship, project, or trying anything new, it is better to make mistakes than do nothing at all. 

    Some of the most successful persons, I know, deal with mistakes as part of the learning. They turn all of their defeats into learning experiences. This is extremely powerful when you consider the cost of learning anything of value.

    After all, what did you spend on your education, so far? Did you think you would stop learning at a certain point in life? Did you learn from your past mistakes? Of course you did, and now you are stronger due to the corrective adjustments, you have made.

    When a child learns to ride a bicycle, there are plenty of falls along the way, and then the falling stops. However, even skilled adults fall off bicycles, sometimes.

    So, don't take past failures personally. Put them behind you and learn from each one. 

    Henry Ford and the Wright Brothers had failures, but nobody seems to remember that. Just like them, you are not a failure, but you may have failed in the past, just like they did. When you get down on yourself, look back at what you have accomplished. 

    When you take on your next project, do the research first, make a full commitment to succeed, and never mentally quit before you start. 

    Lastly, whenever it is possible, learn from the mistakes of others. To save money and time by avoiding known mistakes, pitfalls, and traps.